Agreeing to sell the house is one decision. A divorce sale runs on five, and each of the other four is either written down somewhere or still waiting to be made.
Any one left unassigned does not disappear — it resurfaces at the moment it is needed, which may be after a contract deadline is already running. That is a more workable problem than it sounds. The sale does not depend on the two of you agreeing about most things. It depends on each of these decisions being assigned to someone, in writing, before it arrives.
A settlement agreement, a court order, or a written co-owner agreement is where those answers belong. Your attorney is the person who drafts or amends that language; the real estate side works within whatever the document establishes and does not substitute for it. What follows is the list of questions to bring to that conversation, and the point in a sale where each one gets tested.
This checklist expands one section of our guide to selling the family home during a Florida divorce, which also covers how carrying costs and property condition keep moving while the legal process runs.
The Five Decisions and Where Each One Gets Tested
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Listing: who signs, at what price, and who can change it
Answer in writing: Who signs the listing agreement, at what list price, and who can approve a price adjustment later — after how long, or at what level of showing or offer activity?
Where it gets tested: the day the listing agreement is ready to sign, and again the first time the price is questioned. If every adjustment needs a fresh agreement between the two of you, each quiet week on the market can become a new negotiation.
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Spending: who approves repairs, up to what amount, and from which funds
Answer in writing: Who approves pre-listing preparation and repairs, up to what dollar amount without further discussion, and paid from where — one party's cash, a shared account, or a credit at closing?
Where it gets tested: the first contractor quote, and again when a buyer's inspection report arrives. In South Florida this decision can also arrive on its own schedule: a roof or air-conditioning finding at inspection, an insurance renewal that lands inside the listing period, or a named storm on the forecast that raises shutter and storm-preparation questions at a house one of you may no longer live in. Whether to repair at all or sell as-is is part of this decision, and What to Ask Before Deciding to Repair or Sell As-Is works through that choice on its own.
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Responding to offers: who answers, how fast, and what counts as yes
Answer in writing: Who responds to an offer, within what timeframe, and what terms would you both already be committed to accepting — so that an acceptable offer is not a new negotiation between co-owners?
Where it gets tested: when an offer arrives with its own response deadline, which does not wait for two people to reach each other. The same question can return after inspection if a buyer asks for repairs or a credit, which is where this decision and the spending decision meet.
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Access: who controls keys, showings, and the schedule
Answer in writing: Who controls showing access and lockbox and key handling, and how are showings, repairs, and inspections scheduled if one of you is living in the house during the listing?
Where it gets tested: the first showing request. If occupancy is already addressed by an agreement or order in your case, the access plan works inside that arrangement rather than around it.
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Proceeds: how the money moves at closing
Answer in writing: How are closing funds held and disbursed, what is paid off or reimbursed first, and who gives the closing agent those instructions?
Where it gets tested: in the days before closing, when disbursement instructions are needed. How the equity is divided is answered by your agreement or a court order; this decision covers only the mechanics of carrying that answer out at the closing table.
The One Test to Run on All Five
For each decision, ask: can you point to the document that answers it? If you can, both of you have the same reference the next time that decision comes up. If the honest answer is "we talked about it," the decision is still open, and the useful step is to raise it with counsel before listing rather than discovering the gap during an inspection period.
Something we have seen repeatedly in our own divorce sales, offered as professional judgment rather than as a measured finding: the decision that resurfaces late does not have to be one anyone argued about. It can be one that each person assumed was already settled.
If You Have Not Agreed to Sell Yet
This checklist starts after agreement. If one of you wants to sell and the other does not, or the question is whether one spouse can act without the other, those are legal questions before they are real estate questions. Two of our guides address them directly: one spouse refuses to sell house florida divorce and can one spouse sell house without other florida.
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